That is amazing! You’re so right in everything you say. I am so sick of the “not all x” are like this argument. My pet peeves:

“What about all the women who falsely accuse men of rape?”

“All lives matter”

“Everyone can be racist including x people”

“There’s more violence against men than women”

People are not prepared to do the work to understand the tension between prejudice and privilege. The prefer to “present both sides” not realising that they are part of the problem.

This is a wonderful article. Thank you so much for writing it.