My husband is 6’3” and I have big boobs. Neither accounts for our relationship if 17 years, not even at the beginning. We got together that first night because we kept each other in hysterics quoting one of our favourite British comedies, Red Dwarf, to each other.

Yes look may play a role of you’re trying to pick someone up in a bar but once you get talking it’s about how well you click. Humour, values, shared experiences and so on.

The main problem nowadays is post Covid many more people work from home, workout at home and don’t go out socially as much. So these meetings that provide the opportunity for casual chats that become something more just aren’t happening. It’s a difficult situation and I’m not sure what the answer is tbh.